A Lady And Her Husband by Amber Reeves (1914)

I think I was expecting something more polemical and less measured: an undercurrent of rage rather than a rational, ironic dissection of marriage and capitalism. Not that I minded; there are various ways of turning the spotlight on injustice. Is the title significant? The indefinite article, implying these circumstances apply more widely. “A Lady” comes first and hence the husband becomes her “property” – a reversal of the norm. It’s a book that makes its points subtly – and then I wonder how it was received on publication, when its ideas would have seemed more radical.

It’s about a woman, Mary Heyham, in early middle age whose children are now leading independent lives; to keep her active, she is encouraged by her very modern younger daughter to take an interest in the work conditions of the women employed in the family’s tea shop business. Her husband is a successful, energetic and hard-working man. He’s a good husband, a good father and a good employer and he does indeed love his wife dearly . . .

He went over to her and stroked her hair. That, to his mind, was the use of her hair, and to please him she dressed it in a way that was not easily disarranged.

Ouch! Or:

There was no doubt in her mind that most of the wives she knew understood their husbands thoroughly, thus sparing them the trouble of understanding their wives.

As for the economics of running a business, I couldn’t decide if my fuming reaction to the following was totally anachronistic:

Florrie had come to work in the depot not because she needed work, but because she liked her independence and a bit of fun. She left home at seven sharp, and she got back about ten. She had Sundays off, and alternate Bank Holidays. . . .

Yes, it was perfectly true that the company only took girls who were not dependent on their wages for their living. Not that they gave bad wages, but you couldn’t live as a young lady ought to live on eleven shillings a week, bonus instead of tips, making it up to twelve. The manager thought that was good money, she herself had begun – in another company – as kitchen help at seven shillings, and kitchen work was man’s work, not girl’s work at all.

It reminded me of the time I heard an American (politician? journalist?) on “Any Questions” who stated quite baldly that it wasn’t an employer’s task to pay full-time workers enough to support themselves on. It was a shock to realise that people thought like that today – and set me thinking of the dominance of the cash nexus and how crucial state-mandated fairness is in how we live under today’s system.

Anyway – predictably – it turns out that Florrie does indeed need the work to support herself and her sick mother. The “bit of fun” indirect speech is scathingly ironic. It’s typical of the author that Florrie is eventually shown to be flawed as we all are: there are no Dickensian paragons here.

Reeves focuses clearly and rationally on her topics – cool, light, ironic, as if she was anticipating patronising accusations of being emotional or of exaggerating. Lessons are learned, realities faced and Mary emerges from her cocoon of cultivated ignorance, saddened but ready for a new role.

Wark

With the derailment at Shap, I had to come to Wark via Leeds and Newcastle, which gave me the opportunity to have a cup of coffee amongst the Burmantofts splendour of The Centurion bar on Newcastle station. I’ve come for walking and star-gazing, but the weather may rain on both those ambitions.

I arrived shortly after 2, dumped my case and set off to explore Wark and look at the Tyne (high and fast-flowing). I picked up a leaflet at reception and ended up doing a circuit on minor roads with only a camera, an umbrella and a torch. Fortunately the weather stayed dry and I got back before dark, having discovered another disused railway line (the North British Railway). It feels satisfying to be exploring somewhere new.

Sizergh Castle

I almost went to Sizergh on Monday, but the castle itself was closed and that was what I have been meaning to visit. It closes for the season at the end of this week, so – even though it’s half term – today was my only chance unless I was going to let the wish dangle for another couple of years.

I should have chosen my time better, but heigh ho. (The kids were fine; it was the adults I could have done without!) Sizergh Castle is a pele tower with a later Tudor house. The Strickland family have lived there for centuries and given their name to a few pubs and streets. The castle is quite small and most of the visitable rooms are panelled in what is now very dark wood. The panels of the inlaid chamber were sold to the V&A at the end of the 19th century, but they have found their way back. Some wonderful plasterwork ceilings and lots of portraits – in some cases blurring time by showing side by side the grandparents as young people and their grandchildren as elderly, as if illustrating Einstein’s theory of relativity and Burnt Norton simultaneously.

One Battle After Another

Director Paul Thomas Anderson with Leonardo DiCaprio and Sean Penn

Or “One Damn’ Thing After Another” as I thought of it as I was bombarded with quickfire scenes and dialogue, leaving no time for reflection. I’m far too old for something so chaotic, crude and shouty! (But the car chase was absolutely brilliant.) The only times it slowed down, as far as I recall, was to spotlight the malevolence of the powerful white supremacist cell, and a slightly jarring (given the circumstances) genuflection to motherhood at the end. Had I not read years ago the Pynchon novel on which it is loosely based, I would have been floundering a bit.

It’s about a father searching for his daughter against a background of underground agents: revolutionary anti-capitalists, resistance groups on the side of the oppressed, and chilling white supremacists in positions of power that they don’t intend to give up. Once past the cartoonish aspects (e.g. Sean Penn channelling every Sellars character from Dr Strangelove), there is a punchy – if incoherent – resistance to the current Trumpian agenda and actions.

It’s left me with a desire to see The Battle of Algiers again and vague comparisons with a couple of old programmes about state power I’ve recently watched on BBC iPlayer. One is Edge of Darkness – father and daughter again – and the other is David Hare’s play, Absence of War. Unsurprising, both are far more to my taste – but what, more objectively, I note is the way in which atmosphere is built and complex ideas are presented through dialogue and explanation (some of it admittedly clunky) rather than hurling images, vibes and one-liners in the direction of the audience.

Grange to Levens

As I listened to the heavy rain last night, I wondered if my plan of walking over two limestone (slippery when wet) outcrops from Grange to Kendal was a sensible one. But I’d set my alarm, checked the bus timetable and had my sandwiches, so I wasn’t going to be put off.

At Grange-over-Sands I checked the poetry post – again while en route for a bakewell slice – and decided to let that be my guide. So my route skirted the foot of Whitbarrow Scar and avoided Scout Scar completely by turning south at Levens through Brigsteer Woods. A good, circumspect walk: “not fast, not slow, but sure”.